Self-Confidence
Self-confidence is a positive behaviour pattern that centres around the belief in your own innate worth. It is self-confidence that we see in actors and actresses, the wealthy, famous coaches and public inspirational speakers.
Here are some of the images we have of self confidence:
- assertive
- calm in the face of danger or emergency
- attractive
- successful
- wealthy
- magnetic
- socially desirable
- strong
- courageous
- stands up for what she believes in
- expressive
- competence
It is self-confidence that allows us to be who we are, to express that and share it with others. We are able to give our very best in service to others and the world. Every person should be able to live and achieve at least one dream. Only then, will the person’s life leave its mark on the world.
Lack of Self-Confidence Denies Your Greatness
In all of us, a magnificent creation is just waiting to express its greatness. So many people who were clearly handicapped became great people yet, so many of us are terrified of speaking in public or meeting new people, especially the attractive ones.
We know that many celebrities lacked the self-confidence in the early part of their lives but somehow they were able to transform into people magnets. You may know each individual on a personal level but you just can’t find the courage to address all of them as an audience. Does this sound familiar?
Lack of self-confidence is a debilitating condition that robs a person of his or her full potential. So many people live without realising their dreams.
At the core of self-confidence is your self-worth. Self-worth is an outward expression of your own inner life, your habitual thoughts and your memories. Your memories drive your thinking and action because memories are records of your experiences in life, a direct connection with your emotions and subconscious. Perhaps it was what your parents said or did, caused embarrassment, or the unkind words of your peers or teachers when you were young and impressionable.
Why are we so afraid of achieving success? Speaking in public? Socialising? Meeting members of the opposite sex? We question ourselves and ask why would anyone listen or take us seriously. Why should we deserve success, wealth, love, beauty and so on? We are never intelligent enough, attractive enough, aren’t capable, and so on.
This habitual belief in our smallness is what we have programmed in our minds and it cripples so many aspects of our lives.
What To Do About It?
Make a decision to change right now and commit to it! You are preventing yourself from achieving your dreams or the greatness you are destined for. Remember, this is your life and you owe it to yourself. You need to find a way to turn your habitual self-deprecating thinking patterns into positive elevating ones.
If you want to be seen as truly self-confident, you need to imprint on yourself a habitual pattern of thinking, speaking and acting with confidence. However, our behaviours are determined by our past experiences and are very hard to change unless we know exactly what they are. Only when we face our blocks, can we really begin to programme the change.
Hypnotherapy can help you unlock the burdens you have been carrying all your life that makes you tremble in front of an audience. Through hypnosis, positive imagery and the power of positive suggestion you can uncover your blocks and release them. You will be able to programme a stronger, more attractive personality that you desire. You will tell yourself that you are a people magnet, a success magnet, a money magnet, and so on.
It all depends on what you want and what areas of your life you wish to have self-confidence. The important thing is that you will feel your self-confidence. It is only through feeling (and not thinking – thinking never works) that you will really be confident. The more you think, feel and act confident the more you will be confident and be able to inspire others.
Would you want to be confident and project a charismatic image?
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